Monday, April 13, 2009

Assumption 11: "I can't do anything about it," or "We can do it together."

We are so often overwhelmed by the magnitude of the problems around us, and we therefore decide to do nothing. Think about something else. Feel bad about it occasionally. There is the continuing tragedy of Darfur, and the ineptness of the UN or the African Union in doing something about it. There is the inexorable, accelerating warming trend in the global climate that is melting our polar ice and will soon disrupt ocean currents. And the startling collapse of the world economy, and its terrible consequences for human beings. And so much else…

"What can I do about it?" Nothing, it seems. The problems are so big. So we shift our focus down to the narrower scope of everyday concerns and activities. We make breakfast, take the kids to school, call Aunt May, respond to email. We can check off items on our do-list, and derive some satisfaction; some sense of accomplishment.

Watching cable news and the public station keeps us abreast of developments on that larger scale, the worrisome ones, but in a protected way, as spectators. It helps to know there are people out there tracking all these developments, or arguing about them (senselessly), or affirming our reasons to feel concerned. So we're not crazy.

"But what can I do?"

Everything. As human beings, we have evolved a capacity and a need for social interaction. We are fundamentally herd animals—we prefer to be with others, and have survived through our compulsion and genius to communicate, collaborate, and co-create. Together we have created cities, laws, science, corporations, the Internet, and baseball. There is individual effort and genius involved in all this, but it is based on what others have done and taught us, and is useful only through mutual support and teamwork.

Together we have accomplished a lot, both good and bad. As human beings and as a society we are slowly, perhaps just in time, learning to consider consequences beyond the immediate gain. We are definitely slow learners about all this, but we learn. And we learn together. Like ants touching fellow ants to exchange scents of newly discovered food, we avidly communicate about individual discoveries, questions, conjectures.

As we consider the overwhelming circumstances we find ourselves in as a global society, as nations and states, as communities and families, it is useful to remember occasionally that we have a choice: We can hide from ourselves in our imaginary isolation, or we can embrace our human and social power to make a difference, for ourselves, our dear ones, our society.

The first step is simple, though difficult: We can choose to talk with each other about these larger challenges. Talk seems useless, unless it leads to action, but concerted action that makes a difference begins with talk. We don't need to convince anyone to do anything they don't want to do. What is most useful is to express one's own concerns and aspirations, and to ask others about theirs. The rest emerges by the human magic of creative initiative and collaboration.

We can do it, together.

I look forward to your thoughts in the Comments section.

5 comments:

John Milburn said...

Beautifully stated! I am not sure where to begin, but begin we must!

I am finding ways to incorporate new mental models in everyday life that support some of these pressing issues in positive ways.

This seems to help me be more sensitive to the systemic effects of choices and actions both personal and organizational in nature.

For example, by choosing to change my diet to locally produced whole foods, I have decreased the amount of packaging, etc that I buy and throw away as well as not supporting the transportation of foods long distances. There are many other positive systemic effects for the environment the more I think about it.

Now, this activity seems to have filtered into my work life as I have noticed becoming more aware of natural process opportunities and suggestions during work sessions. I have noticed that my orientation towards work has shifted as well, in that I am primarily interested in doing work that fits these new mental models of natural systems and sustainability. My past interest in a larger variety of work holds less interest for me now.

Saul Eisen, Ph.D. said...

This is great, John. Becoming aware of one's choices is like waking up from a dream state. The options were there all along; now we see them, and can choose more intentionally. There is new freedom and power in this kind of awareness, no?

And each time you follow your intentional path, others around you notice a difference. Our human brain is tuned to notice differences. When others notice what you do, they become aware of what they do.

This may be the essence of social change that does not rely on conflict or antagonism. Choices based on awareness lead others to become aware of choices!

Who else out there will communicate about their own journey?

James said...

Great idea, Saul!

A new tree once a year for each person would go a long way toward not only beautifying our environment, but strengthening it.

Now, in terms of human systems; what would the world look like if each one of us could, once a year, plant a tree of hope...or a tree of education...or a tree of housing...or a tree of justice? What a lovely place we would have to live in then!

Unknown said...

Yes, I am convinced that both conversation and individual intention are indeed essential to creating the changes we so need in our culture for us to survive as a species. And, I am equally convinced that having a personal vision of a more sane and healthy future is essential to counteracting the paralysis that comes from being constantly bombarded by media that provokes fear, hopelessness, and a sense of isolation. I believe it was Peter Senge who said that it is not what a vision is, but what a vision does that is important, and I am beginning to comprehend the truth in that. Through conversation we can mold shared visions of a sustainable future, and through intentional action we can, hopefully, realize them.

This being said, I'm not sure how productive talk is without a grounding in vision. I have found that talking with others about the current world situation often results in one of two responses: either a shutting down of/withdrawal from the conversation, or a gripe-fest, in which the woes of the world are complained about and all participants are left feeling even more hopeless and fearful than before. The question for me, then, is how to inspire people to engage in this process of envisioning a better future, individually and collectively. It seems to be challenging for us to overcome our fascination with deficits and avoidance of personal responsibility which this process requires.

OD provides many tools--from coaching to World Cafe--that can really contribute here if used intentionally for this purpose. I think it is important for practitioners to first, develop their own vision for the future, and secondly, to actively seek opportunities to help others in doing so.

Saul Eisen, Ph.D. said...

Thanks, Beth, for reminding us of the importance and power of developing a positive vision to guide our behavior. Without it, one can become simply reactive to events. And reaction to some important events is sometimes insufficient to affect them. Some events require prediction and preparation, or prevention.

The vision I hold is that as human beings we can consider the problematic future coming toward us, talk about it with each other, and develop a shared vision for doing what is needed to create a different, surprising, sane and healthy society--for ourselves, for our children, and for our grandchildren.

It is hard work, and we will need to get better at doing it as we go, but it won't get done unless we do it--I and thou.